Just as we need fresh air to breathe, our sex lives also demand refreshing plots.

Over an excellent sexual briefing, our sex lives become stagnant and stale.

Once sex becomes boring, it starts affecting our relationship miserably.

Also, the over-familiarity with the partner dampens the passion.

But we can’t let our sex lives fend off out of boredom.

We have to deploy methods to spice up our bedtime sessions and here’s how following few tricks in the bedroom might change the sexual ecosystem and bring back the charm.


  • Avoid pre-meditated schedule: This is where the problem starts. The couples develop a bad habit where they stick to the sexual routine even while having it. Whether it is foreplay or the intercourse, they get used to the pre-meditated course, and they don’t feed any new plot to the brain. Having the same sex position at the same place also chips in the monotony in the relationship. With such predefined routine, you will never enjoy sex, and you’d eventually feel it a drag. Your brain loves to get stimulated, and for that, you will have to write a new script for your dull days.


  • Cut off your shyness: With sex being the most intimate way of lovemaking, you can’t afford to stay shy on the bed. It’s fine to feel discomfort in the initial intimate days; however, if you continue to feel the same, you are making a grave mistake. Opening up about your fantasy with the partner might add depth to your relationship. With the words and desires unexpressed, you are physically present, but sexually absent— because you aren’t enjoying it. For better enjoyment, cut off your shyness and spill out the beans.


  • Stimulating the erogenous zone: Well, this has to be the best practice for enhancing sex life. Both men and women have different erogenous zones. Some are turned on by sexual stimulation on the neck, and some in the lower abdomen region. Having talked about erogenous zones, we can’t rule out the region behind the knee area. It’s the best opportunity to explore your partner’s body and learn what excites them. Having to trace a partner’s body with tongue or sensual touch submits different kind of energy in the relationship. It’s also one of the strongest foundations of a good relationship.


  • Make lingerie your weapon: Lingeries are strong enough to give a hard boner. With a man, woman, and lingerie, we can easily move in the trio for having a threesome. You should experiment with it because with the way you wear it, the way you remove it, the way you give it a swirl on your fingers, each method pulls in a new kind of fantasy. Today, we have lingeries for men and women. Sexual penetration with the on lingeries is a new kind of sexual desire which men and women breed. You can also rely on edible lingeries— the new variant of lingerie which can unleash the beast in you.


  • Make friends with sex toys: Sex toys have taken a whole new leap in the industry, and that’s only because of their stimulating power. Sex toys entice a different level of pleasure for you and your partner. They are available in all the shapes and sizes to suffice the needs of both men and women. Whether it’s vibrators or sex dolls, they are here to stay as long as the planet earth exists. They are one good solution to revive the dying relationship.


A lot of people feel that introducing external assistance like sex toys is a kind of cheat. So, before you opt for this method, make sure that you remain considerate and take advice from your partner.